Cesar also uses three other components which he uses to train the dogs are exercise, discipline and affection. He is able to combine all of these so that the animals become well trained. He takes the dogs on hikes when they stay at his program, he keeps his authority, and he also shows compassion for them as well. When all of these are put together it is almost how we would raise a child. We must show authority and show them who is the boss, but it is also necessary to show them compassion and to be affectionate towards them, because without this we would be overly demanding and controlling and would therefore receive no affection back. This is all necessary to develop a healthy relationship.
Also mentioned in this article is Cesar's relationship with his wife. He does not see marriage as a two way street, he views it as his wife is there to tend to his every wish. His wife does not feel this way and wants him to go therapy where he discovers that he must all make connections with people as well as the dogs.
The last piece that this article leaves you with is when it talk about the 3 year old who is autistic and his care giver. The woman who works with him is also excellent in what she does. She uses music to try and control the child. But more importantly she mimics his own motions and then tries to establish connections with the child through the music being played. By this I mean that she moves the childs legs to the beat of the music in order to try and calm the child down. I personally do not understand how this helps the child that much. I see that she got the child to relax somewhat, but I do not understand how.
This article was overall very well written, but it did lose me at some points. I was partially confused about the part with the baby and his therapist when she begins to work with him. This article also seemed like a hypertext, since it was written online, but more so that it connected other stories as well, all referring back to the original idea about the connections and relationships with people and dogs and people and other people based on the ideas of authority and compassion.
One last idea to this article is that I feel that through all of this Gladwell is trying to convey the use of authority, especially when referring to Cesar Millan. This connects to Bartholomae's ideas of authority by that it conveys how important authority is, even if you are not entirely confident in your work, it is still important to show yourself in a manner that does make it seem like you know everything. Perhaps if I knew more and understood the authors ideas on human to human relationships as shown in this article, then I might be able to respond more on them. I do not however understand it all that much so I am unable to say whether or not Batholomae connects to this.
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